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Gentleness: jen'-t'-l-nes ('anah; epieikeia, chrestotes): In II Samuel 22:36 'anah, "to bend low," "to condescend," is translated "gentleness," "Thy gentleness hath made me great," the Revised Version, margin "or condescension"; so also Psalms 18:35, where the word is 'anwah "humility," "gentleness," or "condescension." In the New Testament epieikeia ("fairness," "moderation," in Acts 24:4 translated "clemency") is in II Corinthians 10:1 translated "gentleness," "the meekness and gentleness of Christ" (2 Macc 2:22 "favour," the Revised Version (British and American) "forbearance"); chrestotes,  "kindness," "usefulness," is translated "gentleness" in Galatians 5:22 the King James Version, the Revised Version (British and American) "kindness"; chrestos is the word translated "kind" (to the unthankful and evil, Luke 6:35), and chrestotes seems to carry in it a similar idea of active kindness.

Gentle occurs in the Old Testament only in the Revised Version (British and American) of Jeremiah 11:19, "I was like a gentle lamb" (kebhes). In the New Testament it is the translation of epios, "mild," "gentle" (I Thessalonians 2:7; II Timothy 2:24), and of epieikes, "fitting" "proper," etc. (I Timothy 3:3 the Revised Version (British and American);Titus 3:2;James 3:17; I Peter 2:18); also, with article, Philippians 4:5 (the King James Version "moderation," the Revised Version (British and American) "forbearance"). In 2 Macc 15:12 Onias is said (the King James Version) to be "gentle (praos) in condition," the Revised Version (British and American) "in manner."

W. L. Walker from the International Standard Bible Encyclopedia

Actually, though it may be translated “gentleness” in some translations, ‘anah (הנע) means to humble and afflict one’s self so in my opinion it would probably be better to choose to “bend low” if you wanted to follow the literal route. 2 Samuel 22:36 in the Holman is rendered “help” and the NET has it as “willingness to help”. Since ‘anah in Hebrew is literally “answer” we must understand that it is God’s condescension to go out of His way to be what David needs that is intended.

Again, in Psalm 18:35 the term ‘anwah denotes humility and condescension. So the Holman puts it correctly, “Your humility exalts me.”

I completely disagree with the Revised Version’s translation of kebhes (כְּכֶבֶשׂ) in Jeremiah 11:19 as “gentle” as it comes from a root which means “to dominate” and must connote the masculinity of the sheep (i.e. a ram) rather than its demeanor.  

Epiekeia (ἐπιείκεια) in Acts 24:4 and 2 Corinthians 10:1 is mildness, gentleness, indulgence or fairness. The Holman has it “graciousness” in Acts and “humble” in 2 Corinthians. The NET notes at 2 Corinthians 10:1 that Dr. Walker syas that when the two Greek nouns prauth and eipiekeia are used together, 90% of the time the connotation is “leniency and clemency.” He goes on to say that “leniency and clemency” has a military connotation, which is precisely what appears in the following verses.

·         2 Corinthians 10:2-3 HCSB  For although we are walking in the flesh, we do not wage war in a fleshly way,  (4)  since the weapons of our warfare are not fleshly, but are powerful through God for the demolition of strongholds. We demolish arguments

So when he discusses “leniency and clemency” the nuance is the sparing use of authority. It is not that you do not fight and overcome your enemy but that you are gracious in victory and do your best to limit the collateral damage.

1 Thessalonians 2:7 and 2 Timothy 2:24 both use epios which can mean “affable, mild, or gentle” indicating how Paul was among them in the first and is a direct command in the second. However, within the immediate context Paul also commands resistance to lashon hara and specifically names two men whose evil speech he describes as spreading like gangrene!

·         2 Timothy 2:14-17 HCSB  Remind them of these things, charging them before God not to fight about words; this is in no way profitable and leads to the ruin of the hearers.  (15)  Be diligent to present yourself approved to God, a worker who doesn't need to be ashamed, correctly teaching the word of truth.  (16)  But avoid irreverent, empty speech, for this will produce an even greater measure of godlessness.  (17)  And their word will spread like gangrene, among whom are Hymenaeus and Philetus.

Obviously Paul’s understanding of “gentle and able to teach” is a little different than our Midwestern idea!

“Epiekes” in 1 Timothy 3:3; Titus 3:2; James 3:17 and 1 Peter 2:18 carries the meaning of “fairness” from “epiekeia” (see above) to the point of “fitting and proper.” So in those cases we are to determine what is fitting and proper to the situation and pursue that. If mildness will produce the best results then that is the appropriate response. If “sharp rebuke” seems to be a better tool, then it is a poor workman indeed who neglects to use it. This is part and parcel of “being all things to all men” (1 Corinthians 9:19-23). To the rebellious we must be stern. To the ignorant we must be patient teachers. To the lost we must be evangelists. To fellow leadership we must be examples of holiness and righteousness. “Epiekes” in Philippians 4:5 is rendered “graciousness” in the Holman and “gentleness” in the NET. Yet it is directly defined as doing what is seeming or suitable; pursuing what is equitable, fair, mild, gentle. Again, we are left with the decision of what is suitable in any given situation but encouraged to keep it on the mild side if at all possible. Only ramp things up to the necessary degree to produce the desired results.

Galatians 5:22’s list of the fruit of the Spirit include gentleness which the translation of chrestotes (χρηστότης). Chrestotes indicates moral goodness, integrity or secondarily benignity and kindness. The active kindness is thus guided by moral goodness and integrity while being moderated by benignity and kindness. Think “speak the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15). Indeed,

·         1 Corinthians 13:1-3 HCSB  If I speak the languages of men and of angels, but do not have love, I am a sounding gong or a clanging cymbal.  (2)  If I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so that I can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing.  (3)  And if I donate all my goods to feed the poor, and if I give my body to be burned, but do not have love, I gain nothing.

This does not preclude giving “sharp rebukes” but commands that the motive must not be personal advancement or simply “getting things off one’s chest” but the actual, carefully considered good of the individual and the congregation. 


 


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Brian
11/04/2011 20:32

I agree that we need to strive to become like Christ and use biblical truths and teaching to lead us. What I find hard is to find the discernment to know what the best way to deal with others in such a way to bring them to a point of change. No two people will react the same way to a rebuke. We need to make sure when dealing with one another we that we are sure they are aware of what our Father expects of us and give fair warning before we rebuke them. When we are dealing with one another, our goal is always to restore them to a place that is pleasing to God. If a person has the temperament that requires a sharp rebuke, then we need to do so. If a person has a temperament that requires a gentle rebuke, then that is our approach and varying degrees in between. I believe that the Holy Spirit will guide us if our hearts are pure.

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Cajun Pauley
11/04/2011 21:10

I agree that we should be as aware as possible of where people are and try to fit the message to their needs. However, I too struggle with discerning that best way.

On the other hand I'm not sure I agree with the "fair warning". I need to think about that.

Did Paul give Peter "fair warning?" Did Hymaneus and Alexander get "fair warning"? Did Aaron and Miriam when they slandered Moses? Did Korah? Did Jesus give "fair warning" to Peter before saying "Get behind me Satan" or to the Pharisees before calling them "Hypocrites"?

From what I've seen in the Scriptures the difference is not a temperament issue so much as a leadership or knowledge issue. "To whom much is given much is required." "Not many should desire to be teachers knowing they receive a stricter judgment."

The difference seems to be an issue of knowledge. If the person is largely ignorant (i.e. Samaritan woman) they're treated gently. Leadership (i.e. each of the above) who are presumed to know better - not so much.

Can you give me Scriptural support that shows leadership getting "fair warning"?

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Cajun Pauley
11/04/2011 21:21

In regards to your statement that the Spirit will guide those who are pure in heart, I completely agree. Titus 1:15-16

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Jake
11/21/2011 20:16

Scripture is a wonderful thing and the metaphor of sheep and shepard is one that brings back a childhood memory that I'll share for what it may or may not be worth.

When I was 10 years old my Grandpa bought a bunch of sheep, not real sure why but he did. One day all us boys(5 of us around the same age) were headed out to the barn to climb in the rafters which was a normal affair when we went to Grandmas house,as we got closer to the barn we saw a ewe with her head stuck in the board fence. The grass is always greener on the other side of coarse, the gap between the boards was wider on one end than the other so the sheep could turn its head to get through and then run the length of the rod to eat but must not have remembered how it got its head in there. We all decided that we would do Grandpa a big favor and free the sheep, so we real calmly coaxed it down to the wide end of the fence but when it got there I real fast grabbed it by the ears to twist its head sideways to free it but it spooked and went back down to the narrow end we kept trying to free it but we soon lost our patience and thought maybe if we would kick and punch it and pull it by its legs like you do hogs that would surely make it submit and go where we wanted it to. Man, were we wrong. The harsher we got the more resistence it put up so we eventually just kicked one of the boards off to free it. A few days later we rode out to the sheep pen with my Grandpa. We were in the back of his truck with the dog, when we got there he told us all to stay in the truck which we did because we all loved and respected Gramps, even his dog only needed told once. He calmly called all the sheep into the barn everyone of them came. My Grandpa was a quiet man, he was big and strong but rarely used that in his relationships and when he spoke it was for your good and you knew it, though he didn't say it all the time we knew he loved us by the way he was,the the way he led his family and I'm better for seeing those things. When I remember that John 10:27 comes to mind. It seems that sheep need to be led and by the grace of God we can all be the undershepards God desires us to be, so I ask myself how does that apply to people and all of this balance on how to rebuke, gentle? Or harsh? Gentle? Or harsh? In my flesh I always choose harsh because my flesh is still unfortunately much like that 10 year old boy from my memories, but if the need for a rebuke is necessary among leadership I pray that Lady Wisdom will allow me to be like Nathan the prophet, and I'm not sure that his approach would classify as "fair warning" but no matter, it prepared David's heart to accept the rebuke and come to a place of confession and repentence and right standing with God, and made way for God's discipline which is much more superior than man's. In much of the examples of harsh rebuke it seems that the knowledge of the sin was given to the elder by the Spirit and the consequence also, so they did not have to rely on any witness and there was nothing to be weighed, no gray area at all, no rumor mill to be contended with no evidence to be searched out, what a blessing. I hope that we all can continue to gain favor with the sheep that we shepard and build trusting relationships that encourage them to good works and lead from sin and that the staffs we carry, we carry to protect and comfort,and hopefully it is few and far between that needs discipline. To me people in sin are much like that ewe with her head stuck in the fence they know they're stuck and the more obvious that gets the more spooked they get especially when they are taking a beating for it. I hope we all can be like John the Baptist and make a straight path for those who need to come to Christ and be like Nathan that brought the most powerful warrior, priest, elder, King of Israel David to a place where he would take a harsh rebuke from a man and severe punishment from God and still like the man and praise God even more than before. In our rebukes we need to lean on the Spirit and leave room for the Spirit who is perfect in conviction and
restoration.

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